YOUR child is unique – everything about them is unique. They are unique even from YOU and their siblings. But in today’s environment – it is good to know what Social Intelligence is. And know how to live in this environment of Social Intelligence. Social intelligence is learned. Some children are more socially intelligent than […]
Who can become an Addict?
Who can become an Addict? Each of us can become addicted to anything. I work very hard not to overeat because I have a food problem and hypothyroidism. But, most of us know that the worse addicts are alcoholics, drug addicts, and smokers. My sister became an alcoholic when she was in high school. My […]
Children and effects of TV
Since TV came into the market place there has been a discussion of just how much TV can a person watch and not be affected. Most recently in the last 10-20 years, there has been researched on how TV has affected children and their brain develops. Daphne Bavelier, a brain scientist, says the effects of […]
Childhood trauma – adult anxiety.
I get these images off the internet for free. But, this young man looks like he belongs with this post on trama. Maybe, he never had any childhood trauma but by his body language, it looks like he has the anxiety of some type. What went on in your childhood to cause you anxiety […]
Parent, keep private YOUR stuff!
Children have to have a childhood that is free from adult stuff. It comes early enough for a child sometimes. But, if you can possibly keep your child in childhood that is great. Why do you think that there have been so many great motivational speakers in the last 100 years for adults? Because […]
“Before the Fact” or “After the Fact” Parent?
It is easier to wait for problems instead of staying in front of them. But staying in front makes life’s stresses less for YOU the parent. And yes, it can be a lonely journey – but it is how your attitude is what makes the journey as much as what you want in life. Each […]
Build a Sense of Achievement and Independence.
Raising Children To Be Independent and Self-Reliant Build a Sense of Achievement and Independence. One of your most important goals as a parent is to raise children who become independent and self-reliant people. Certainly, in early development, your children count on you. As infants, they rely on you for nourishment, cleaning, and mobility. And your […]
Behavior – the good and the bad
Good behavior in school starts with good behavior at home. Having respect for others Being kind to one another There are many ways to have good behavior no matter where YOUR child is. Most important is the fact that YOUR child should: Be on time prepared responsible cooperative respectful What YOU […]
Self-Defeating Thinking Habits.
Self-Defeating Thinking Habits. This is from a book by one of my favorite people. Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, who passed several years ago but he was great to follow his thinking. He had been an orphan and he became this wonderful person who effected millions around the world. I do not have a TV but […]
When to listen to Others.
When to listen to Others. The answer and best answer is NEVER. Of course, there have been lots of research and a lot of people who try to get others into their web. What happens to a 13-year-old who starts drinking or taking drugs. Remember, that our brains are not developed until mid-twenties. […]
Being Proactive and Staying ahead of the curve
Should have, Could have, Would have. This is a statement that none of us want to say. Because, when we say it, it means we have regrets that we did not do something. Something that we could have possibly done. There are not always things we can do every moment. Sometimes things happen that make […]
11 Year old cured of Leukemia
Sara Banta, creator of Accelerated Health Products out of California in the past had her young son diagnosed with lung cancer. I cannot even imagine what a terrible feeling that would be like. From that prognosis to having her son cured she developed these wonderful products. Go to her website: acceleratedhealthproducts.com 11 Year old cured […]
First Things First and More
First Things First is a book written by, my belief, the great Stephen R. Covey. Also, he wrote The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Read all of his books if you can, they will only enrich your life in the long run. But, I will take some of his thoughts from his book and […]
YOUR Life can be Extraordinary.
I can tell by the smiles on the children above that they will want their lives to be extraordinary. And it takes work and commitment to do that. But, they have the time. YOU have the time and your children have the time. Life is short, but the earlier you start your plan and have […]
Have Clear Expectations for YOU.
Never settle – always have high expectations for YOU. Remember, you are only in control of YOU. Set those expectations high and work hard to meet them. Do you want to flip burgers all your life or do you want to own your own company? Do you want to work for a big corporation or […]
Proactive or Reactive – the Choice is YOURS.
Learning and keep learning is the best way for success and knowing your purpose in life. The more you learn the more you can accomplish. And the more you see that the more you will want to learn. The following are some questions about being proactive or being reactive. I will try or I will do […]
What are your Life Questions?
What are you Life Questions? There should be some questions YOUR child wants to be answered. Ask YOUR child questions that they may want answers for. If they ask you questions that you may not know the answers to then you go and do your research and read about those questions. It helps in your […]
What is YOUR Mission Statement?
If YOUR child is starting Kindergarten through Senior help them start their first Mission Statement. As they develop and age they will be able to write their own Mission Statement. Have them write one for every school year. It will help them to keep focused on their goals for their school year. And it will […]
Understanding instead of Judging others.
YOU are Unique in the Universe. When we each understand that we have empathy for others who are different. Forget and stay away from those who are negative and dark. Focus on YOU and remember there a lot of good people who think good thoughts. If you are an introvert just stay at the edge […]
Win-Win Attitude for YOUR Child.
This is an attitude that not only helps you be successful in your schoolwork but in your relationships and long term in life. Positive thinking people and self-confident people have more success and are healthier as they age. This is not necessarily about money success but that should come if that is what you want […]