How to keep YOUR Child from becoming “Bored”. How to keep YOUR Child from becoming “Bored”. No matter where you live there will be lots of different things to keep the young busy and entertained on their downtime. There should always be sometimes that is quiet for YOUR child. But, for the most part, a […]
Parent like no other Parent
Parent like no other Parent It is difficult to be as unique and still fit in. Today’s school environment is like any other past school times. Every boy wants to be the quarterback on the football team. Every little girl wants to be the High School Prom Queen. Not going to happen. The earlier YOU start […]
Going from dependent to independent child
YOUR child going from dependent to independent. Your child going from dependent to independent. Hopefully, you will be there when YOUR child needs you and know when to step-a-way. It is a difficult line sometimes to know but YOU have been the parent all their life so should be easier now. It is like a tunnel […]
Deficient Emptiness pervades our culture
I keep going back and listening to interviews by Dr. Gabor Mat’e from Canada. He covers so much of what has gone on psychologically for the last 70 years. He covers from when he was 1 year old and given to a stranger to today in world culture. None of what goes on in today’s […]
Child is in Constant Transition
YOUR child is in constant transition YOUR child is in constant transition. Constant transition starts at birth. They are growing and developing every day. Information and knowledge are constantly going into their little brains. We hope, as parents, that the majority of that information and knowledge is positive and intelligent. There should be limits to […]
Sense of Deficient Emptiness
Dr. Gabor Mate, a Psychiatrist from Canada, has written about drug addicts because he is an expert. I will write this article and be writing a lot from his articles and interviews. His talk about drug addicts that are more painfully conscious of this void than most people, and has limited means of escaping it. […]
16 Different Personality Types
I was over 40 years old and had never lived by myself and I need to know who exactly I was. This book by Myers Briggs was a good start and it has helped through the years. If you have been controlled by people, places or things then you need to read this book. It […]
Words – YOUR child’s future
Words can make a person better. There are always going to be words that make things worse but we are on the right side of the words. What words do you say to YOUR child? What is the tone of those words? Are those words positive and uplifting? NEVER use negative words to any Child. […]
How unique is YOUR child?
Unique – what is unique in this world, in your city, in your family: Everything is unique. everyone is unique, every raindrop is unique, every snowflake is unique, every piece of sand. There is no one in your family or in this universe that is like you. Enjoy that uniqueness Appreciate your skills Appreciate you […]
My Child Setting a Goal and Motivated to Pursue It
Raising children who are self-motivated is a surefire way to ensure that YOUR child will be able to succeed later in life. Successful people know what hard work is-and understand that hard work is worth doing, with or without the reward.Internal motivation is when the desire and drive for something come completely from within. Even if […]
Making the Right Choice
How does YOUR child make the best choice? YOUR child will make the best choice when they have: Self-Discipline Self-Confidence Are inspired Are motivated Have courage Self-respect Respect for others Making the Right Choice Making good choices is a lot like learning how to tie shoes for young children; it is a skill that develops […]
When to say Yes in Life! For Life
What will empower me? Will it motivate? Can it inspire me? Will it be beneficial? If I decide to do THIS thing today will it get me to the next level? How will it impact my life for the good? Will it impact my children for the good? When it will improve family life. Remember, […]
Not using Protection can be life changing
Protection comes into all parts of our life – especially comes into YOUR child’s life. Protection from: Bullies Negative thoughts Not doing school work Sex too young Drugs and consequences Wrong friends Lack of self-respect No self-confidence Not using Protection can be life-changing Everyone needs to have their own Protection because then they can avert […]
Become a Motivated Parent
Where does YOUR motivation come from? Yourself? Other people? TV? Friends? Motivational speakers? Motivation can come from all of the above or none of the above. It is again as unique as we each are. But, each does need to find what motivates us individually. So, I can only speak for myself – I like […]
How does YOUR Brain make YOUR Mind think
It is a journey – an individual thing for each of us as a unique being Some children are born at the top of the pyramid for brains – they can graduate college in physics at 20. Most of us are not like that. We applaud their success but we travel our own road. Our brains will […]
Being Liked.
Dr. M. Scott Peck said in the first sentence to his blockbuster book: “Life is Difficult”. Being Liked. As we are born into a family and develop it takes years to develop into an independent person. But, when we get out on our own we realize Dr. Peck is right. Outside of our family […]
Brain Development and YOUR Child.
Brain Development and YOUR Child. As we grow and develop in today’s environment and the world there can be a lot that can stop the brain from developing correctly. The brain is not fully developed until a human-any human- until they are in their mid-20s. That is correct. So what does a teenager have doing […]
Which Wolf do YOU Feed?
Which Wolf do YOU Feed? If we know that life is difficult from the start it helps us on our journey. There are people who have more than me and people who have less than me. I want everyone to have a positive attitude and have the opportunity from where ever they live. But, […]
Help My Child Build Good Study Habits
When the freshness of back to school wears off, the student and parent know it is time to down to business. For students heading to middle school or high school, the homework assignment becomes tougher, workloads get heavier and staying ahead of the curve becomes more of a challenge.YOU, the parent, may ask “what is […]
Social Intelligence – and why it matters
YOUR child is unique – everything about them is unique. They are unique even from YOU and their siblings. But in today’s environment – it is good to know what Social Intelligence is. And know how to live in this environment of Social Intelligence. Social intelligence is learned. Some children are more socially intelligent than […]