Life is about growing, learning and exploring – yes, but it is much, much more than that. And life is not about anyone else. Control is about controlling only YOU. Never be in control of anyone else – not your husband, not your partner, not your children, not anyone else. But, here is a chance […]
Neuroscientists “Brain fully developed age 25”
Neuroscientists says “Brain fully developed age 25”. Neuroscientists agree that the human brain hasn’t really developed until the mid-’20s. As most scientist claim, the brain is fully developed by the age of 25. Our executive functions, memory, and attention, as well as our complex planning and decision making and complex planning, will develop over […]
Obstacles in YOUR Child’s Life
Obstacles in YOUR Child’s Life Obstacles in YOUR Child’s Life. There are always going to obstacles. How is your child going to handle those obstacles; an accident they did not see coming. But a romance that ended with tears, or a mistake that will always regret. And a reason that did not come true. Or a curveball that […]
Tube of Toothpaste
Tube of Toothpaste Tube of Toothpaste. What is that? Just imagine that the above is a glob of toothpaste. Squirt out the whole tube onto a paper plate. And then you have to put the toothpaste back into the tube!!! That is a silly thing to do. Not when you look at it […]
Trauma as a Child. Always help the Child.
Trauma as a Child. Always help the Child. We each have had trauma before we became an adult. How we deal with that trauma is another thing. What choice’s we make going through that trauma is another thing. How we make that choice and the consequences of that choice. Trauma is different to different children […]
Learn about Money and how to Budget
Your Child and learning about money and how to Budget Learning about money and how to budget as a child develops is very important. If you recall from your own development years, or maybe not, as an adult it took you several years to learn. Also, when one begins to acknowledge that you only […]
Being Liked.
Dr. M. Scott Peck said in the first sentence to his blockbuster book: “Life is Difficult”. Being Liked. As we are born into a family and develop it takes years to develop into an independent person. But, when we get out on our own we realize Dr. Peck is right. Outside of our family […]
Words that will help your child
Growing up is difficult! Words that will help your child I remember reading M. Scott Peck, MD book for the first time: “The Road Less Traveled”. The first sentence in the book is “Life is Difficult”. In my own mind, I should have been told that when I was about 9 and then I think […]
Parent, keep private YOUR stuff!
Children have to have a childhood that is free from adult stuff. It comes early enough for a child sometimes. But, if you can possibly keep your child in childhood that is great. Why do you think that there have been so many great motivational speakers in the last 100 years for adults? Because […]
“Before the Fact” or “After the Fact” Parent?
It is easier to wait for problems instead of staying in front of them. But staying in front makes life’s stresses less for YOU the parent. And yes, it can be a lonely journey – but it is how your attitude is what makes the journey as much as what you want in life. Each […]
11 Year old cured of Leukemia
Sara Banta, creator of Accelerated Health Products out of California in the past had her young son diagnosed with lung cancer. I cannot even imagine what a terrible feeling that would be like. From that prognosis to having her son cured she developed these wonderful products. Go to her website: acceleratedhealthproducts.com 11 Year old cured […]
Man-made reality is a Distraction for your success
Man-made reality is a Distraction for your success. When you are watching other people’s success that is taking time away from YOUR success. I want every child to be a success in their school years. And I want every adult to be a success in their life. But, if YOU and your children are spending […]
What is YOUR Mission Statement?
If YOUR child is starting Kindergarten through Senior help them start their first Mission Statement. As they develop and age they will be able to write their own Mission Statement. Have them write one for every school year. It will help them to keep focused on their goals for their school year. And it will […]
YOUR online footprint for ever.
WE all know, and YOU should know, and YOUR children should know. Know that anything any of us put on the computer is there forever. Any words, any pictures, any negative about anyone, any bullying or any sexting or naked pictures any us put on the internet. It is there for anyone and everyone to […]
What is the Code YOU live by?
Everyone lives by a Code But, is it the best Code for YOU? Is it bringing about a meaningful life? Is it YOUR Purpose in Life? What determines YOUR Code? I would say a few things here that determine YOUR code: Your code could also be YOUR values to live by; YOUR principles that you live by. […]