Words can make a person better. There are always going to be words that make things worse but we are on the right side of the words.
What words do you say to YOUR child? What is the tone of those words?
Are those words positive and uplifting? NEVER use negative words to any Child. NEVER use anything but a good tone in YOUR voice.
USE those words that:
Each word a child hears and the tone of that word affects that child TODAY and into their future forever.
YOU have so much power over that CHILD’s future and use it for good. There are parents who are mean, abusive and bad for the child that has been given to them as a GIFT. Use that power carefully and with a loving attitude at all times. It is not YOUR child’s fault YOUR:
Unhappy at your job
Not making as much money you think you deserve
Use your words carefully and with that love the child expects.
Give YOUR child those words to help them grow and develop into that wonderful adult they want for themselves and you want for them.
A child does not have to be everything -help them make a good choice for activities and their school. None of us are perfect but have high expectations for yourself and your child.
What are YOUR expectations for yourself? What is your Child’s expectation for themselves?
Do you use Positive and Encouraging WORDS? Is the TONE of your voice normal and loving?
The word Expectation can prove to be one of the most important words in any person’s life.
The word Motivated can prove to be one of the most important words in any person’s life.
So you see that there are lots of important words that can affect any person all throughout their life.
Words – YOUR child’s future
But, that is a big BUT, that a word today like expectations cannot be important to YOU today but tomorrow YOU may have a truly awakening about the word expectations tomorrow. Because you will be in a different place tomorrow-you have 1 more day of understanding YOUR journey. YOUR development as a parent will be more developed tomorrow. Use this day to educate your self on something new and learning more to help you reach YOUR expectations.
Life is not always good and does not always go the way we want. In those days and in those times be the biggest you can be, stand the tallest you can stand, and most important forgive YOURself for that regret we all have. Forgiving YOURself makes the tomorrows better, helps you get to the next stage in YOUR development, and moves YOU beyond that anger, that fear, and that worry we can all have during our lifetime.
Smile and be joyful as many days as YOU can – there will be days when you are not – but use the words for YOURself to get yourself up to the way you want to be. How do you want the day to go? What Words will you use to uplift yourself?
Those are the same Words YOUR child needs to become uplifted on a daily basis.
Words – YOUR child’s future