What will empower me?
Will it motivate?
Can it inspire me?
Will it be beneficial?
If I decide to do THIS thing today will it get me to the next level?
How will it impact my life for the good?
Will it impact my children for the good?
When it will improve family life.
Remember, this child will really only be with you until they go away to college or move out to start their own journey.
When to say Yes in Life!
If you have a wonderful partner in life then that is a good thing, but if you are a single parent there will be a time when you can have a life, but at these important years of your child’s life, it is necessary to focus on YOU and YOUR child. So, do not consider dating or going out to find sex or a relationship if it takes time away from your child and your own personal life. YOU will know it is ok if you can maintain a separate life with a person. But, it creates so much tension because YOUR child needs you – not trying to find the right partner. Unless you can manage time for a relationship it is best to wait until the children are older.
How to make good decisions and good choices take time. Because you and your child need to know what is good for YOU and your family. If you are making good decisions on big items then you probably are making decisions on little items. Even making sure your relationships are good choices is important. Learn how to say no and how to stay away from negative people.
My Child Making Good Decisions?
When to say Yes in Life!
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